So, yesterday.....
I wasn't expecting anything miraculous, because I know how recovery can be unpredictable. But went out anyway, ready to face the world with my new CBT skills and my head filled with positive affirmations.
We had to pop in to the corner shop first because I had ordered something and it had come in.
This means communicating, waiting while they get the item. Surprisingly, I was absolutely fine and felt quite composed.
Next stop was the Post Office where Mr C goes in on his own and I wait in the car.
Not this time. In I went and managed it like it was a cool breeze.
Next stop to the hairdressers so Mr C could get a haircut.
Again, no problem.
When back home, went for a walk again and feeling quite proud of my day's challenges.
What I've actually been doing is NOT been using alot of coping/safety tools that I normally use.
Like reverting to my phone for distraction, keep sipping my bottle of water, walking around with my coat open incase I get a hot flush and many other rituals that I think help me.
I've basically not thought about it, allowed whatever to happen to me, no matter how scary the thought may be and just done it.
Now, I'm not saying my anxieties have gone completely because I still have the negative thoughts and the fear, but I'm practising and questioning the way that it affects me.
Only time will heal and change the way I think and feel, but it's definitely improving.