Yup, January has been a real barrel of monkeys and the hits just keep on coming. We are now bracing for a huge blizzard and snow storm which is going to probably cause the government to close the roads. The last time we had one of these we were trapped in our house for 3 days before a snow plow could get to our street. Of course I have somehow GOT to get to the shelter and luckily I don't live far, but I'm sure all the volunteers and staff are going to be "no show" so I'm not sure what this will bring. I'm actually asking for volunteers to come tomorrow and spend the night in a nearby hotel so that someone can help care for the animals at the shelter. The fun never ends. :(
I had a bad day yesterday. I woke up and started reading my message, emails and texts from the shelter. One of them really p/ssed me off and as the day wore on I got more and more angry. I was repressing it and when I got to the shelter I got hit with all kinds of urgent issues so it was a whirlwind. About 4:00 p.m. I started feeling dizzy and then very weak and tired. To the point I was barely hanging on and wondering if I'd be able to drive home, but I was waiting to lock up the building. I barely crawled into the house, told my husband I couldn't really chat right then, and went to the couch. As the night wore on I got better, but I have to wonder if pent up anger can really make you feel that physically ill. I imagine it can as it immediately produces cortisol and adrenaline, I think? Today was a planned day off, but even though I did some shelter communication it was from the comfort of my chair and in my jammies with my OWN cat and dogs with me.
So I need to learn what to do with anger that I really can't release on the source. Do I just vent to someone else? Do I put something in writing to release it? Scream into a pillow? I'm accustomed to shoving everything down inside of me but I don't want to do that anymore. Suggestions?
Sue