Fear of being on my own for the rest of my life (:

[Bigboyuk]

Hi folks this is so real for me and I don't like the way I feel, So any one else either going through this now or has done in the past? It's pretty scary right now ATB

[Carnation]

Yes, I have BB. But, never give up hope.

[Catherine S]

There's a lid for every teapot Dave. Have faith

Cath x

[Elen]

There's a lid for every teapot Dave. Have faith

Cath x

Godd if makes you feel better Dave, to me it is a platitude and I have been around too long to believe it for a min.

[Catherine S]

I was just trying to make him feel better elen that's all. I found my lid at age 54, but it's possible at any age.

[Elen]

I was just trying to make him feel better elen that's all. I found my lid at age 54, but it's possible at any age.

yep I appreciate that but it still is a platitude, So glad that you found your partner later in life, so hope for many there,

[Bigboyuk]

Yes, I have BB. But, never give up hope.

I have very nearly Carnation but thx ATB

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There's a lid for every teapot Dave. Have faith

Cath x

Cath I like you the way you said that Thx ATB

[Catherine S]

Not much of a consolation Dave, but I'll be in Stafford on Friday April 27th, so could meet you for a coffee? My train gets in from Crewe around 1pm lunchtime and i'm gonna have a wander around town until I head off to my daughter's when she finishes work. Stafford park is opposite the station too, and is a really nice place. PM me if you prefer to.

Cath ☺

[Bigboyuk]

Not much of a consolation Dave, but I'll be in Stafford on Friday April 27th, so could meet you for a coffee? My train gets in from Crewe around 1pm lunchtime and i'm gonna have a wander around town until I head off to my daughter's when she finishes work. Stafford park is opposite the station too, and is a really nice place. PM me if you prefer to.

Cath ☺

Cath it's music to my ears and sounds good. I will pm in a bit thx ATB

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Godd if makes you feel better Dave, to me it is a platitude and I have been around too long to believe it for a min.

But it's true Elen so you have given up hope then, you sound a really caring person ATB

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I was just trying to make him feel better elen that's all. I found my lid at age 54, but it's possible at any age.

Seriously Cath that does fill me with hope for which I am greatfulATB

[Elen]

Dave I have been there, but have gotten over it to a certain extent, mainly cause I cannot work out an alternative behaviour.

I think that I get too intense at times and way to needy and that scares people off, not that I blame them.

Am I happy, in some respects yes, but others no.

Must admit I do look at some people in relationships and wonder how can you get there but I can't, but then to be fair we never know how things are behind closed doors, and I am sure that there are many people in relationships that are truly miserable.