Would LOVE if someone could take the time to read this...

The past couple of months have been crazy. I started out with some palpatations that were diagnosed as PVCS. After some bloodwork I ended up having high red blood count, hemoglobin, hematocrit, albumin, protein, and calcium. The rbc, hgb, hematocrit, albumin, and calcium have gone back to normal but my protein is always high. I keep seeing its sign of inflammatory process or cancer. The high calcium was def a bad sign but its since gone down.
During this time my hair starts falling out like crazy and I've lost some weight. I'm still eating the same (not very healthy). I start getting swollen lymph nodes in my neck, behind ear and supraclavicular node. The doctors have not once been concerned. I basically demanded a surgeon take out my supraclavicular node because I was so concerned something was going on. Particularly lymphoma. I also demanded my doc order a CT scan. The supraclavicular node came back benign. No sign of cancer. This was an excisional biopsy so very accurate. However, my ct scan done of my chest-abdomen- pelvis showed nothing other than a 2 cm ovarian cyst that was going away. BUT I did have some swollen mesenteric lymph nodes ( 9mm), retroperitoneal lymph nodes (1.2 cm) and inguinal (1 cm). I also had an elevated CRP rate and sed rate. Barely elevated though. The CT scan showed remarkable besides those enlarged nodes. I'm at a LOSS at what is going on. The CT scan said to follow up in 3 months but I do not want to wait that long if something is going on. Apparently retroperitoneal lymph node swelling is not normal (According to google). I still have swollen lymph nodes in neck and ear that have been there for a couple of months. I got scared that maybe the swollen nodes were possibly mestatic ovarian cancer so I went to obgyn and she didn't seem concerned but she said she would order an ultrasound for me.
I'm so scared that something is going on but the doctors are not listening. I have swollen lymph nodes in random spots, losing weight, hair falling out, weight loss, and constant high protein. I did have a high wbc count and neutrophils but that went back down as well. I tested negative for mono and negative ANA.

So with that being said, if the CT scan didn't show anything more than a few swollen lymph nodes, and to f/u in 3 months..should I be freaking out? If it was something serious, the CT probably would have picked up on it, right? I'm scared I have some sort of cancer and it's going to be one of those stories where the person keeps getting turned away because of young age and by the time the cancer was found the person had stage 4....ugh. I hate living like this its driving me crazy.