Good that you both can help each other and welcome to the forum, Nicole!

I only mentioned the constipation because I have problems even at a low dose. The GP said I wouldn't but the Consultant said I would! I'm sure the prunes will do the trick!

Even if this turns out to be REM behavioural sleep disorder it's obviously treatable and not having HA allows your partner to take things as they come rather than project too much into an unpredictable future. How I envy people who have this attitude to life-I'm always thinking ahead and planning for the worst and it might never happen!