This much is true - or put a warning at the top of the post Toby.

I wanted to add, that no matter what the view of anyone posting here, we DO all want the same for you Toby, that you are free of this horrible mental state. None of us actually want you here, just have different opinions on the situation at the present time.

Some members actually do take on the advice and move toward recovery and healing. That's what its about.
Yes, it is, and yes he is.