Originally Posted by
Scass
Toby I can understand your parents frustration and worry. You have all this potential and you’re so bright but you’re basically hiding in your room. Perhaps this one to discuss with your counsellor?
Also, where does the money come from? They are your parents and they love you, but can you really expect them to continue to pay for this?
There’s no harm in getting a retail job to help pay your way. There’s no harm in trying college - just because it went wrong before doesn’t mean it still will? That’s your anxiety talking.
All these new worries are because you’re not recognising and dealing with the anxiety. Again, a good topic for your counsellor.
You’re having a blip, which is a pattern you get into. You’ll get out of it again but you need to think positively and be willing to continue to change your thinking. Not googling bowel concerns is great, now try and work on another thing maybe?