Re: False ocd thoughts
Originally Posted by
phil06
My partner cleaned the washing machine and caused a major stress. She put kitchen roll in the bin whilst holding a bit of the plastic inlays that goes on the machine. It may have been her other hand but I fear my clothes having bin germs so we are no longer talking. She can’t be trusted I can’t afford a new machine to replace it I will now worry as I tend to do. She can’t be trusted so I feel annoyed about getting married I am annoyed I never cleaned it myself to avoid this hassle. Nobody can reassure me my clothes will be clean becuase she has stressed now and they won’t be clean.
So your "contamination" OCD hasn't loosened its grip on you and perhaps only took a back seat position whilst you were temporarily distracted by Stag Night worries.
Your partner needs to understand just how severely your OCD affects you, but you also need to accept that she can't be walking on eggshells afraid to make a mistake and trigger your OCD. As Pul says, this is no way to start a marriage, and I think you both need to seriously consider your future together before taking your vows.
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