Or perhaps feeling upset when already upset when a thread isn't answered despite all others may be?
It's hardly just an anxiety thing, it's something upset people do...
Best to always sleep on it and approach the situation when less emotional. In Cognitive Distortions it's called Emotional Reasoning so it's obviously seen as a problem for us with mental health problems.
Hope you feel better now, Tracie. Remember how many people offered support on a previous thread? Don't read info a slow thread, that previous one showed people cared.