Well said, Carnation. We are only trying to help you, Buster. You can't carry on like this and you need to fight for your relationship if you want things to improve. You need to talk to her and not to us. We can only offer advice from afar. It's down to you to make your life more bearable and that means being able to communicate with her in a meaningful and therapeutic way.

You can do it..It'll be worth it for a happier life with your partner x