please stop

[whispershadow]

why are you doing this to me


maybe if i hide behind here you'll stop

[whispershadow]

you belong in forum jail

[Midnight-mouse]

You do not deserve such a thing and I’m sure that it won’t happen, you are safe whisper.

Mouse


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[whispershadow]

three won't stop about that other forum tonight

what if everyone they threw in forum jail on there had to have a group thing with the admin there and it was a real life thing? he's scary

what if on here anyone who got in trouble had to go on a compulsory group thing?

seriously three stop

runs off to hide behind the next person to post

save me

[MyNameIsTerry]

X = that number you fear in this post.

What if they didn't?
What if we don't here?
What if our Admin's are lovely, caring people?
What if this is a safe forum?
What if X is just talking out of his backside?

Believe me, whisper, if there were sinister goings on here there are plenty of us who have been around for years who would have heard about it. Sure, people sometimes have their run ins but it's no more than anywhere else and things rumble on.

They don't have a jail, they have bans. I've been here 4 years and in this time I've seen a fair few bans. I can only think of 2 that occurred outside of being spammers who shouldn't have joined hence were reported and removed. Multiple chances were given from what I saw on the forum and there may have been more on PM for all I know. And I've seen the arguments on here and been involved in some. I'm still here.

My experience of this forum is that they regard taking this type of action as a last resort and you have to seriously go some to earn it. Even then there are many chances before it even goes that far. And what you need to keep in mind is that they understand you have something within your mental health that is trying to undermine your safety and that even if something was posted they won't just do something, they will talk to you first. Obviously Admin are the ones who can say what they would do but this is based on my observation of being a regular member on here, being involved in conflicts and talking to Admin about stuff like that. I find them very understanding and they have a big thing about inclusion on here unlike some sites they boot people off without thinking twice.

What does X know? X hasn't been here like I have and everyone else. X doesn't know the Admin's or how they think and operate. X has no evidence to base his nastiness on.

[whispershadow]

Thanks Terry