Hi everyone im extremely anxious about things lately,bpth my dad and mum died of inoperable cancer my dad was 54 lung and my mum was 68 primary unknown.In november last year my brother was diagnosed with inoperable anal cancer which has spread to his liver and we are in bits hes 59 years old.He has had radiotheraphy and chemo to treat the symptoms and hopefully prolong his life,The only symptoms he had was pain in his bottom for about a month and bright red bleeding for a couple of weeks when he went to doctors,how can this happen so quick when he was told by the first consultant it was piles which it wasnt.Ihave three sisters im so worried what the future hold cancer wise with mum dad and my brother getting it are we all going to go down the same path is it in our genes im so worried about my brother we are very close and spends alot of time with me since his diagnoses im finding it so hard to be rational,Its exhausting trying to keep him afloat while trying to keep myself sane,Im so sorry for the long post im desperate for someone to speak rational to me