So in another month I tick marriage off the box so I moved from a flat to a house last year. Do I say that’s it I have achieved enough and just continue or do I search for a new challenge a new career? Go back and learn to drive I had over 100 lessons but that was ten years ago how easy is it to go back? My partner doesn’t seem keen on driving so it’s an added pressure. Or do I have a family just one and get by or do I make that choice not to have any?

I mean i will continue to holiday around Europe by rail as I don’t like flying but can I reach my goal of New York? What next for me? I often worry I have no free will to decide anyway so what the heck? I could content myself but something tells me it’s human nature to have a go at something else? Is there anyone here got to a stage in life they are content and don’t need the next goal or life goal so to speak?