Also, would your wife's opinion be important to you in your decision-making?
KK
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We will not go into why I am getting married because it’s happening and I am.
The issue is do I do big goals like drive and have a family or do I content myself and go on holiday continue to see the world best I can and stay in my job? For example when I was younger I would go through 5/6 jobs a year constantly walking out of jobs I had relationships that never worked I was 5 years single and always miserable and I couldn’t hold down a friendship. Fast forward ten years I have had same friends for ten years been in my job almost 8 years and a relationship for 7 years so my point is having some consistency and stability is better for me than always making major changes?
I don't think you can plan life like that - sometimes it plans things for you. You don't have to have big goals etc etc just go with the flow.
Nicola
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So you are getting married for some consistency and stability? "7 year itch" and all that? It's best that way for you?
I can imagine that you would find it difficult to "go with the flow" though?
I think your fiancee might appreciate some involvement in a decision to start a family. She may have some thoughts of her own on this?
KK
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Well that’s the stag doo over, wedding and honeymoon so pressure is on. My dream is to go to New York but right now I have a fear of flying especially long haul flights I hope I can live the dream and make it to NYC.
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