Originally Posted by
Elen
Toby you are totally overthinking it and please do not come back at me with a BUT.
She is not being selfish, she is a grown woman who realises that you totally over react to things.
This is your HA kicking off in yet another direction.
Did you speak to your doctor about how badly your mental health is impacting on your every day life and your family's life.
It would be great if she could find you some appropriate treatment, sooner rather than having to go through the process of queuing.
Please try very hard not to allow this thread to turn in a re-assurance seeking post.
I am not trying to be harsh here as I have every sympathy with you but us feeding your fears is not helpful.