Did my mum just have a seizure?

[BlueIris]

You don't need to do anything, if slightly shaky hands in the morning were a big thing, we'd all be doomed.

Your only problem is your faulty thinking patterns and your stubborn refusal to help yourself.

[Carys]

Nothing, you do NOTHING.

You are not responsible for your mother, and she can make her own decisions about her health problems or LACK of them. Toby, as a woman of the same age as your mother, I have assorted things that have changed in my body, none of them are sinister and they are just part of being older. Your mother isn't concerned. Let it go and stop watching her and projecting your own hyper vigilance about health matters onto her.

[Toby2000]

I know it's problematic but I just can't stop worrying about her and she has an endless list of problems in my eyes.. diarrhea (if she still has it), shaky hands that look twitchy in the mornings/possible seizures, a cough from smoking although I'm not worrying about that right now.

I just care about her so much, her well being is so important to me

Coming on here to complain about it won't really help I guess, no one can wave a magic wand and fix me or her. I'm just feeling so down right now and I'm going on holiday Tuesday morning, I'm really dreading worrying about both her and myself