Thank you both for your replies.

Pulisa, I am sorry things are still so difficult for you and your son. It must be nice to have him home, but must also be a worrying time for you. I hope the meds and the EMDR will be helpful. Thank you for your advice about psychs. I am seeing the CPN tomorrow so will ask. This psych announced in October there was nothing wrong with me (without meeting me), and then did a 180, and I'm struggling to understand how they can do that. I'll be keeping my fingers crossed that the EMDR will help your son. I've heard good things about it.

PDU, I was on trazodone for a month or so in the autumn, at 50mg. I stopped it and went back to mirtazapine, but neither helped me sleep so I stopped mirt too. I increased to 150mg last night but it does nothing for me. I get really agitated when I can't sleep so tried to get up. Almost passed out, checked my BP which was 78/38! Quetiapine plunges my BP and I'm sure that can't be safe! They've told me not to decrease it, but I might do anyway