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[pulisa]

I'm actually very relieved to have him being monitored away from home, Carnation. I never thought I would think this but I do now. He is back on Friday but I will just have to do my best. We will have the home treatment team coming in but it's not ideal. Thanks for the message though xx

[Carnation]

No, it's not ideal Pulisa. I worry about the responsibility you will have and so soon. Whatever help is offered, take it! xx

[pulisa]

The whole set up has been really poor. He's not had supervision with his meds so has not taken what he has been prescribed, I've had a shedload of phonecalls including in the early hours and the support workers are mostly abrupt and unhelpful. I don't know what to do next. Is there anything I can do? I don't think so.

[Carnation]

I can't say I am surprised Pulisa. Help and support for mental health is disgraceful.
Can you contact 'Mind', at least for advice.
They have a pretty good reputation as far as I know and a powerful organisation.
The only other route is saying you are unable to look after your son, especially with your daughter's issues, but that could lead to a permanent situation of never having him back home permanently. And you might not be able to live with that decision as it stands at present. Obviously if the situation becomes out of hand and dangerous, then it's a scenario that might arise.
I would go with 'Mind' first and see what they say. x

[Quinn1]

Wish I was there pulisa.xx

[Scass]

Oh Pulisa that’s shocking. I assume you’ve spoken with the manager there? Or does he have a support worker or team?
I hope it gets better soon x

[pulisa]

I can't elaborate on what happened yesterday but it was every mother's worst nightmare.

I do need to take a break from here and wanted to explain my absence. I need to concentrate on my family and getting my son well again.

Take care everyone and thank you for all your support xxx

[Scass]

Sending lots of love xx

[Carnation]

Support is here if you need it Pulisa x
I'm hoping that life will improve for you and your family

[Quinn1]

Sending love your way