Thanks for the replies on here I’m going to take away some good information I will definitely be reading this again next time I have a wobble. This is a condition I know I have to live with forever and sometimes that’s really overwhelming but I understand now it’s totally manageable and there’s no reason for me to have any problems if I take care of myself (as a busy mum with a small family I often forget that) I need to follow the realistic guidelines set by my nurse and not people on the internet telling me I can never eat a carrot or potato again. My nurse told me that my HbA1c was 56 at diagnosis so loosing weight and just cutting out half of the chocolate, biscuits and potatoes etc would make a massive improvement to me but I went full on and cut everything out, while that’s helped me lose weight I don’t think it’s done my mental health any good. that’s really sad to say. Onwards and upwards from today . Thank you