Does anyone absolutely hate people sleeping over? I'm married with 2 young kids. My husbands dad lives an hour away and doesnt have a car so when he visits he stays overnight since my hubs drives to get him and take him home. I'm very uncomfortable with him sleeping here. It's not that I dont like him but I dont want any adults sleeping here. Neices/nephew's dont bother me. Sometimes at night when my anxiety is exceptionally bad I dont sleep well or I wake up nauseous and want to sleep on the couch with the window cracked. I get that its selfish but idk what to do. His whole family is coming twice for thanksgiving. We are doing one for his mom and one for his dad. (They are divorced and wont do one together). Am I being unreasonable? I should also say that his dad has only been in our life a few years so i dont know him that well.