My Current Numerous Worries

[glassgirlw]

Probably going to regret asking this but how do you know it was squishy and could fold?

[Lolalee1]

Two worries today

'Black peppercorn' in toilet. Not sure if it came out me for one as we don't flush wee atm (don't judge, it's a plumbing issue). Plus surely I'd have felt something that size wouldn't I? It was squishy and could fold but wouldn't break?

Secondly losing over a stone since Christmas, is that normal? I'm back at pre baby weight and lost 4 stone I gained while preg.

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A peppercorn is small,not like you are pushing out a 10pounder.
Please tell us you didn’t handle your crap!!

[helenhoo]

No it was urine not poop!

[helenhoo]

Is the weight loss normal amount? Did anyone go back to pre baby weight and how long did it take you?

[helenhoo]

I have occasionally mild ear ache in one ear. Is this a concern?

[BlueIris]

Knock it off, Reb, and start working on what you've learned from your CBT again.

[helenhoo]

Just saw another speck again not sure what it was as couldn't get it to look at it. I'm in full panic mode at the moment. What if is UTI, diabetes, infection or cancer? My pee is reasonably normal otherwise. I get two tiny bubbles sometimes and before my period I occasionally get discharge. I'm so worried.

[nomorepanic]

You don't have anything to worry about though. You really need to get back to your CBT practices - why have you stopped that?

[helenhoo]

I'm stressing out so much I can't calm down, not much on the Internet but things about kidney infection and damage and how it can be fatal.

[Scass]

It’s difficult to cone out of the worry spiral, but unless you have any more symptoms of kidney infection then it’s very unlikely.

I think you need to pause so that you can start again. Can you do that? Stop and do something relaxing or mindful and then do something to keep you busy for a while. It’ll clear your head.

Then stop checking the toilet, it’s pointless.