Hi.
I just need some perspective here as I feel very sad and angry about some reactions from my friends. I am suffering badly with health anxiety, social anxiety and agoraphobia at the moment. My friend has a christening tomorrow for her little girl. I told two of my other friends I may not attend the actual church ceremony but would come for the lunch after to see the baby etc. I struggle a lot in those environments at the moment, churches and the like, not being able to get up and leave and being squished in the seats etc. Anyway one of my friends said wow you're on another planet, you're mad, you cant miss the ceremony and come for the meal! And made me feel really sh*t about it. She said this knowing I am having anxiety problems. My other friend agreed you cant do one and not the other. Is this some kind of social faux par? I just want to show my face and see my friends, but dont feel up to the stress of being trapped in the church for an hour. Is that so bad ?