EMDR experiences

[pulisa]

Thank you Joe. That's very kind of you.

[Carnation]

Is it tomorrow your hotel stay Pulisa?
Wishing you a blissful rest whenever it is. x

[pulisa]

We had to cancel the hotel and are going for the day on Wednesday instead, Carnation. Things are just too unstable and my OH isn't used to anticipating danger signals from my son. It's fine..we will still have some time away and will try again when things are easier xx

[Carnation]

It's something you can expand on if you need to.
The time away will still be beneficial to you both. xx

[Dying_Swan]

Sorry to hear that, but glad you'll still get a day trip. Have a lovely time, and I hope you'll soon be able to have your girls night away.

[pulisa]

Thank you to you both. We haven't been able to have a day out since July other than an afternoon in London in December so it's probably best to start with a day trip. I think the weather is sunny but cold tomorrow so ideal. We both have to make that psychological break away from my son's illness-I'll be ok but my daughter won't unless she gets a chance to experience normality again.

[Carnation]

It's going to be a lovely day tomorrow Pulisa, like you say cold but sunny with no wind, unlike today.
I think it will be a breath of fresh air for you both.
I know you have the situation to go back to afterwards, but at least you can treat yourselves for the day.
Mr C and I used to do this in our days of caring.
We'd take some books or mags, order a nice lunch, then have a stroll around the Hotels Garden and finish with a tea and cake in the afternoon.
And people watching can be interesting too.
I'm hoping you will make this an ongoing treat, you both deserve to breathe some fresh air. xx

[pulisa]

That's really kind of you Carnation xx

We are going to visit a favourite tea shop and get some much needed bracing sea air. Also going to visit a couple of new attractions. Just hope the trains don't play up as I always fear being stranded! Mind you, might not be a bad thing

[Carnation]

Hope you had a nice day today Pulisa x

[pulisa]

We had a lovely day out in sunny Brighton, Carnation! All went to plan which always helps!! Got some quirky socks and a new soap..Also shared a seafront bench with a very persistent enormous seagull who was intent on being fed! My daughter took loads of photos so some memories to look back on.

Am glad we didn't stay the night-the day was just the right amount of time xx