Please Help!! Freaking out again!!

[pulisa]

How is he coping with his diagnosis and the prospect of surgery? I'm sure he'll appreciate you looking after him post-surgery.

[Carys]

Sounds exactly like post-med and anxiety IBS.

[StephA]

Glad your husband is doing well! Have you tried any probiotics like I mentioned before when you were worried about the Clindamycin? I told you how harsh it was. I would highly suggest you get some probiotics in pill form if you haven’t.

[always scared]

Glad your husband is doing well! Have you tried any probiotics like I mentioned before when you were worried about the Clindamycin? I told you how harsh it was. I would highly suggest you get some probiotics in pill form if you haven’t.

I did try some probiotics Bio-K and Align probiotics

Tell me more.... Surgery still scheduled for the 20th? What is the prognosis? Have the doctors set out a game plan in the mean time? .....

Positive thoughts

Prognosis is good. He's only having surgery to remove his kidney and follow up appointments after that.

Sounds exactly like post-med and anxiety IBS.

I was really hoping that's all it was BUT it's not going away!! It's been more than 3 weeks now

[pulisa]

I did try some probiotics Bio-K and Align probiotics



Prognosis is good. He's only having surgery to remove his kidney and follow up appointments after that.



I was really hoping that's all it was BUT it's not going away!! It's been more than 3 weeks now

"Only having surgery" is still a big deal and he will need some looking after post-surgery. Does this give you motivation to put your HA worries on hold and concentrate on his needs?

[Carys]

It's been more than 3 weeks now

That isn't that long. I still stand by what I said.

[Fishmanpa]

"Only having surgery" is still a big deal

That was my thought as well. That's major surgery and you kind of downplayed it and launched right back into your symptoms and imaginary illnesses again :(

Positive thoughts

[AntsyVee]

Your HA is your body’s reaction to your stress and trauma of losing loved ones and facing the difficulties of taking care of a spouse undergoing major surgery. If you want to get better, it’s time to seek some grief and trauma counseling.

[always scared]

"Only having surgery" is still a big deal and he will need some looking after post-surgery. Does this give you motivation to put your HA worries on hold and concentrate on his needs?

That was my thought as well. That's major surgery and you kind of downplayed it and launched right back into your symptoms and imaginary illnesses again :(

Positive thoughts

When I said he was only having surgery I meant that in a good way as he had a good prognoses and he didn't need chemo and radiation
You guys can be so harsh sometimes

[BlueIris]

It's because you're obsessing over your own (understandable, benign) symptoms while your other half has major stuff going on.