I don't think this is an appropriate question, so am not going to answer it. If you can choose what to discuss, which is of course entirely your prerogative! (despite having brought things up yourself), then we can choose what to discuss also.I have a question about my partners birthday night out obviously I had a topic on it and discussed it but it’s in a pub, probably can’t go ahead but we paid £200 pounds to the pub and the singer should I be asking for it back? My partner is too afraid to ask for it back as people will be struggling financially? And also I have to decide if I rearrange problem is we have no idea how long pubs will be closed for.