Re: Getting weird feelings about husband's relationship to his sister
Just to offer another perspective, I have a male friend very close to my age. I’ve known him 10+ years and he is like my brother.
I would say my relationship with him is much the same as your husband and his sister and we’re not even related by blood!
We’ve shared the same bed on multiple occasions while we’ve both been in committed relationships and I wouldn’t/don’t think twice about what I’m wearing around him.
I’d quite happily, and have on more than one occasion been topless/in my underwear changing clothes in front of him. I think it’s honestly that I know there’s never been/going to be anything sexual between us so why would it even cross my mind? I know it doesn’t his, he doesn’t look at me that way and I very much doubt that your husband does his sister either!
My friend is very protective over me, he would be angry if I were flirting with everyone too. He certainly was when I was single, it’s just because he wants the best for me!
Now as to being braless, just because it’s not something you are used to seeing or doing, that doesn’t mean that it’s a bad or provocative way to be dressed. I certainly wouldn’t find it disrespectful regardless of someone’s marital status, I hate the things and only wear them if I absolutely must. So you can be darn sure that my friend has seen me braless as has his wife. I also don’t wear them at home so I’m around my father too, it’s a matter of personal choice and I don’t think it’s fair at all to judge someone by it!
As for low cut tops and sleeping around, that’s her choice and far from anyone else’s place to judge her.
Having sex outside of the marriage is between her, and her ex/husband. It most certainly does not make her a sex worker with sexually transmitted diseases! In fact having multiple partners in normal safe situations does very little to raise ones chance of catching STI/Ds if everyone’s being responsible about safe sex and their sexual health. In fact if I were to wish to sleep with another man or woman it would be between my husband and I and the dynamic of our relationship but it certainly doesn’t make me a sex worker (I refuse to use the term you did, it’s derogatory) we as women should be lifting each other up not tearing down for the enjoyment of sex.
Positive vibes,
Mouse.
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