Re: Awful observations I have made over the past few months on the forum.
Originally Posted by
Elise
I think often it’s not what’s been said, but the way it’s been said. Like I have seen comments saying things such as grow up, stop being stupid etc. You can challenge unhelpful behaviours without resorting to comments like that.
Not directing anyone just giving my opinion
i dont think i say anything like that?
please call me out on it if i do?
what i wanted to say is the admins have to look out for the majority, which means not letting one member explode all over everyone else, yes people can express themself here but if its negatively affecting other members, what do admin do? Do they allow the member to trigger other members, or do they say "right this is affecting other members now, please stop or else" then follow through? i think its fair for them to ask the member triggering others to stop (i'm talking general here, not anyone in particular)
i mean if i went off on one and got dragged into pm and asked to stop, i would try to stop the behaviour i got asked to stop.
just putting my point of view out there, rightly or wrongly.
Last edited by whispershadow; 12-03-20 at 15:23.
Reason: spelling mistake
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