I didn't think you were unkind. I wast just explaining my side of things that is all.
I didn't think you were unkind. I wast just explaining my side of things that is all.
Nicola
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When enabling and reassurance doesn't help nor does bluntness, what does that leave? Some people are unable to or will never take the steps to treat the real illness. Sadly, its just the way it is and is the case based on the posters history.
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It's an age old debate on here and it never gets resolved. Some people get frustrated, some are on a short fuse due to their own anxiety and some are just rude because they are like that in real life. Some just don't realise they are doing It, it's normal behaviour to them.
This is why rules matter. Rules prevent those that fancy taking their anger out on someone from having their fun. Anyone who tells me this doesn't happen on here has been lucky not to be on the end of some of it.
But negatives aside the vast majority aren't like that and if they are at times it's out of frustration or their own anxiety eating into their normal patience. It's always repetitive poster threads because people get frustrated that their efforts aren't getting somewhere or aren't listened to.
I learned ages ago to invest less emotion on here to protect my own wellbeing just as you have to in real life. Why keep moaning at the TV because something you don't like is on when you won't change the channel? Learn to walk away.
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For free Mindfulness resources, please see this thread I have created to compile many sources together http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=168689
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