Re: 3 months of enlarged lymph nodes - lymphoma fear
HI Katie_Cupcakes
To answer your question, "How long should I wait before making another appointment", in my opinion, you move on from this and don't worry about how long to wait. You've been the doctor 3 times and the doctor has given you the all clear. Remember, your doctor is a medically trained professional. Find other lymph node threads on here and you'll see the urgency doctors put into testing when they suspect something suspicious. Your doctor's lack of concern is not an indication of him fobbing you off, rather it's his expert opinion that there isn't something to worry about.
Also, some facts to ground you in reality may be helpful. First, you've had this for three months and have no other indications of sickness. Lymphoma, generally, is aggressive. You don't just get a few swollen lymph nodes and nothing else. It usually involves systemic issues which you stated you are not experiencing. Second, the groin is notorious for having lymph nodes and larger lymph nodes at that. You have described yours as "pea size". This is the normal size of lymph nodes. Actually, groin lymph nodes can be up to 2cm and still be normal.
As someone who has spent a good amount of time stressing over lymph nodes and lymphoma, please trust me when I say to trust your doctor.
Best Wishes
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