I had an emergency hysterectomy at 32 when my daughter was born but my ovaries were left. Apparently they fail within 5 years after hysterectomy but this wasn't know then. I wasn't offered HRT and had my first psychiatric hospitalisation 4 years post-surgery. I didn't have counselling either-just had to get on with it.

I think you are much better off now, Snowy. Surgical menopause can be harsh but it's not a life sentence. People like to be dramatic on these facebook groups-they need to be heard. If you have found someone to help you then they can give you the very best advice which is right for you.

Sometimes people who struggle the most keep quiet too. Don't believe everything you read on facebook!