I agree with pretty much everything you have said....and I do not think that this is a decision about money versus people's lives; it simply is not that black and white. To give some perspective, I work in human resources for an engineering firm with offices in multiple states. All of our offices and most of the construction sites are closed down. In the past month I have had to furlough 7 people throughout our company. They may have access to unemployment but it is not going to be able to match their current salaries. My firm is able to cover health insurance for these individuals for 90 days, but I imagine most companies cannot do this. In addition to people losing their jobs and income (which absolutely has an impact on a person's health) I had to sign off on an unpaid leave form for an employee who has decided that they need to go to a treatment center because being quarantined and not having the daily flux and interaction of a job has brought substance abuse to the surface. I have multiple employees calling me because they just cannot function; cannot stay motivated...it is heart wrenching. At the same time, I have had three employees with the virus and one whose elderly parents had the virus. They are all doing fine now (not to belittle the sickness at all). Yesterday I was speaking with our health and safety manager and she was saying that she was thankful that she was diagnosed with depression as a teenager because she has the tools to be able to work through some of this during this time. Her real concern is with all of those people who have never had to address it before and now these quarantines are bringing them to light and they have absolutely no outlet.
It is a multi-layered issue and I would never be so smug to say that it is ludicrous that things are opening up. I am fortunate in that I work from home and my husband is essential, but I cannot begrudge one person who has been let go from their job and is anxious to get back to work to provide for their families and just to have some sense of normalcy. I honestly feel like pretty much every country is trying to do the best they can do with the knowledge they have at hand. There is not some big scorecard out there which shows this country got it right and this one got it wrong. We all have different factors that impact the spread and the percentages. And, with the ever changing facts and figures, it is like trying to shoot at a moving target. Heck, they come out with a new symptom every single day! They have told us to stay at home and now it is coming out that most of the illnesses are reported among people who are at home or in assisted living homes. The projections have been incorrect; when it was first in any country has been way off; how it is transmitted has been wrong; treatments have been found lacking....it is incredibly frustrating. It is hard to believe anything that has come out form any one source because the next week it is overridden by something else, even among scientists and medical professionals.
All this to say, it is a catch-22 by any government right now: damned if you do, damned if you don't.