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[whispershadow]

Carnation - Sorry you are having a rubbish time of at the minute, it is awful while we are in the thick of things. I promise I didn't mean anything against you by quoting your post, it was just the one that said best what i wanted to reply to, it wasn't having a go at you at all...

I think someone else has said, the internet is very black and white. when someone posts something online people can either take it in the way it is meant or read the wrong things into it...... It always happens... if I was stood infront of you saying the same things that I typed you would also have my body language and vocal tone which would make you realise that it wasn't a reply aimed at you and a bad reply in any way at all..... The internet is brilliant, but it can also be a cause of disagreements because of that


We are all stuck at home (apart from working) life is so much different to normal at the mintue.......but the sun is shining and it is rather warm, which to me makes life feel a little better.

I am not sure why you would think I would want to ban you from the site.... I really don't the thought never crossed my mind and never would.

Things in no way work like that... no admin would ever just ban you from the forum, there is a procedure to that... which starts with a PM to the member and then has many steps before anyone is banned...unless you fancy learning korean and spamming the site with spam about online casinos, then I would ban you straight away..... but as I am 100% sure you won't do that you are completely safe

Have a good evening, I hope you start to feel better mentally soon.
Emmz

I think it might help (if you and the other staffs are happy to do this) to post a list of the steps that are taken before someone gets banned from the forum, just my opinion though (might help more than Carnation to know the steps so none of us panics if we get a first strike against us which i can easily do, one PM and i kinda panic and think there's no way back from it

is that okay venus? i understand if it got to be a top secret secret though

[Scass]

I think it might help (if you and the other staffs are happy to do this) to post a list of the steps that are taken before someone gets banned from the forum, just my opinion though (might help more than Carnation to know the steps so none of us panics if we get a first strike against us which i can easily do, one PM and i kinda panic and think there's no way back from it

is that okay venus? i understand if it got to be a top secret secret though

I’m worried that in our current moods we might all start competing to see who can get a stern pm

Not you though Whisper, you’re perfectly lovely.

Hope everyone is ok, we all need a few deep breaths and a pat on the back for getting this far.

X

[whispershadow]

I’m worried that in our current moods we might all start competing to see who can get a stern pm

Not you though Whisper, you’re perfectly lovely.

Hope everyone is ok, we all need a few deep breaths and a pat on the back for getting this far.

X

seriously i would be terrified if i got a stern pm

[Carnation]

Thank you Emmz for that well thought out post and taking the time and consideration to answer me.
I think this thread can be closed now. x

[Elen]

I will close this for you Carnation.

[venusbluejeans]

You are welcome Carnation. and thank you for your reply.