Re: Obsessing over poop
There are lots on here who are obsessed with poop and luckily I'm not one of them. Most people likely glance down the toilet before they flush but its a casual thing they're not actually analysing it! My partner would be totally grossed out if I asked him to look at my poop, so your husband and mother are very tolerant.
Straining to do more when you've finished can cause hemorrhoids so it's not a wise thing to do. I'd advise you discuss this with your Dr and maybe do a stool sample if you're worried about blood in it. Other than that it's just become a habit which you need to break. I'm sure there will be some words of wisdom from other members on here who can help you with this.
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