Hi just want advice to work banter, last wk this guy who is a known bully very loud and so much influence at work as he’s a union man. Very much in the owners pocket. We had a childish banter battle i was giving as much back basically standing my ground. I was on a high at that time almost enjoying it. Could tell i was getting to him. But over the wkend i have crashed due back in work tomorrow night i no he will be in the canteen as i arrive., i am ruminating over the what ifs he says this and that and i will react again or me getting angry. Showing myself up. I don’t want to be like that i would love to just smile and laugh but it’s the dread before i get to work still worrying about it since Friday morning. Would love for some advice please. Thanks.