Re: Here I go again... help
Why have you started a new thread on the same symptoms?
Not going to the doctors for this long is irresponsible - as is not having your smear tests.
Sorry if that comes across as blunt, but, kick up the bum time!
You need to take responsibility for your health. Go and see a doctor and arrange to get a smear test while you're at it. Do it for your kids, if not yourself.
The menopause plays havoc with your entire body. I had spotting two years after my last period - I didn't have cancer! It's rarely cancer.
Sorry love but you've got to pull up your big girl pants on this one. Be courageous. Be strong. Behave yourself with all this Googling crap!
Pick up the phone and make yourself an appointment. Don't dwell on it, just do it.
P.S, I completely understand your fear of dying and leaving your kids. That was my fear. Only I was never away from the doctors - which is the other end to health anxiety. In the middle is where you need to be and it starts with a phone call. X
Last edited by NoraB; 29-10-20 at 06:09.
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