Re: Son's ex-wife in ICU
Thanks everyone for your very helpful input. I shouldn't be criticising my wife on a forum but sometimes you have to want to help yourself. Her health problems are genuine, I was there when each was diagnosed. But I wish that she would push back against them occasionally. I know its not easy and I should maybe apply it to myself, but I've suggested short walks around the block now and again. Just to get her blood flowing and muscles moving again. She is as unfit as a body can get I should imagine, but small steps could make a big difference if only she were willing to try.
She has got Germolene antiseptic cream which I put on the sore earlier, it seems to stop it getting bigger but not be rid of it entirely. I don't help by taking everything upstairs for her, maybe I should make her come down but then it would be more guilt tripping/manipulation.
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