I've had a rough bout of health anxiety that I am getting internet CBT for.
But recently I have noticed some health issues in my partner. And it's so much harder to control. I noticed that she has clubbed nails, something I read about could be from lung cancer, heart problems etc. No idea if they have always been that way, or if it is new. She is of course very upset with me for going on with another thing and says that you don't go to the doctor about the shape of your nails, but I would of course like her to go show this to a doctor. She was a smoker when we met, but that was 15 years ago. We're both in our 40s. I know this can be ideopathic as well, but this is keeping me awake at night.