Hi Sunlight
Please try not to worry about it too much. I think if you go looking for love you will land up with the wrong person. I say that because I've been there, done it and got the t-shirt ( think it still might be hanging in the wardrobe, moth eaten tho lol). I'm nearly 37 [Sigh...] and three years ago was thinking the same as you after i got divorced. And one night on some site started chatting to a man and things just went from there and now i'm really happy. It'll happen when you least expect it to and when it does you'll wonder why you ever worried.
Take care
xx