Re: How do you know when an ache is just your anxiety?
Originally Posted by
Worrywart1234
My husband has looked many times and says both armpits look the same to him, and that they don’t feel different to him. Then I think to myself, if it was something fatal he wouldn’t be able to see it anyway...
Why does it have to be fatal? Hang on, I've had a breakdown due to health anxiety; I know that aches and pains always have to have terminal diseases..
Surely if it was the C word the pain would be severe and constant, not coming and going?
As far as I know, that's the case.
I am fixated on lymph nodes, but I have to honest
And that's why you have the issue. I regularly have achy armpits and age has done weird things to how they look, but that applies to the rest of my body ha ha!
When we become fixated on areas of our body, we can see things that don't actually exist - it's like when I had an eating disorder and saw myself as 'fat' when I was 6 stone. It was real enough to me at the time, but looking at photographs now, I can see how my mind was playing tricks on me.
Glands have a job to do and that's to protect us and our bodies are constantly fighting things off and on a daily basis. Minor infections like sore throats and colds will enlarge the glands - either both of them or just one. They usually go back down after a few weeks. Even when glands are swollen up for weeks on end; cancer is the unlikeliest cause.
If you're having to scrutinize your armpits (and nobody else can see anything) then I'd suggest there's nothing there, but be aware that constantly prodding areas of the body will naturally make them feel achy - sore even - and this fuels the health anxiety fire, only it's us who are creating the symptom. You see?
Given that this was an issue for you back in April and you're still struggling, I doubt that anything we say will reassure you long-term. Only therapy can do that...
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