I had been dating my (now husband) for 6 months when he had to have emergency gallbladder surgery. They did it super late in the day so he had to stay overnight. I held his bedpan so he could pee afterward and slept in the recliner next to his bed all night.

what you’re dealing with now is not normal. Him freezing you out is unacceptable. Is this how he is going to react with other medical issues that may crop up along the way? In my opinion now is a good time to get out of this relationship.