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  1. #231
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    Re: Struggling

    Another day another argument out of nowhere and I’ve now had to move out , not sure if this is it for us , I haven’t been very understanding with her lately so I guess I’m to blame , it all escalated very quickly so I had to go , life was so close to being good but always out of reach , I’ve got so much work to catch up on but no enthusiasm, there seems no point , my daughter text to ask if I’ll take her to her hospital appointment to see the neurologist about her mri scans and discuss her future treatment.
    How do I change my ways to make life better or is this it ? Life is hard

  2. #232
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    Re: Struggling

    Quote Originally Posted by Buster70 View Post
    Another day another argument out of nowhere and Iíve now had to move out , not sure if this is it for us , I havenít been very understanding with her lately so I guess Iím to blame , it all escalated very quickly so I had to go , life was so close to being good but always out of reach , Iíve got so much work to catch up on but no enthusiasm, there seems no point , my daughter text to ask if Iíll take her to her hospital appointment to see the neurologist about her mri scans and discuss her future treatment.
    How do I change my ways to make life better or is this it ? Life is hard
    Oh I'm sorry this is all happening. I wish I had good advice for you. Do you have a counselor of any type. I think when some relationships don't work or have periods of discord, there's always two involved & maybe no one to necessarily blame? Sounds like yall have had a lot going on. Life can still be good. We never know what tomorrow holds.

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    Re: Struggling

    Hi , no there is no one I talk to just this place and if we’re honest I don’t really fit in here , I don’t fit into my family they’ve ether died or have their own lives , I don’t fit into my old circle of friends because social anxiety won’t let me , I dont fit into my relationship anymore , I don’t even fit into this bloody sofa I’ve tried to sleep on , I didn’t think at my age I’d be alone in an empty house , I’d guess today will hold more of the same and at 5 in the morning that doesn’t fill me with hope .

  4. #234
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    Re: Struggling

    Absolutely no point thinking like that though, Buster. Just have some space from your partner, carry on with your work and keep yourself busy. She'll call you when she feels like it. You have your own life too and don't need to fit around other people's needs.

  5. #235
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    Re: Struggling

    I agree with Pulisa Buster. And you've been in this position before. It seems a roundabout of emotions between the two of you which is probably unlikely to change. So you adapt accordingly. I know you don't want to split and your partner would have gone by now, so there's something keeping you two together.
    Geez, it wasn't that long ago that the two of you were practically holding hands waiting to hear about the test results from her breast scan. You'll have to nickname the two of you as Liz and Burton. Maybe you can both laugh about it one day. In the meantime get on with your own thing. Tc x

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    Re: Struggling

    Sorry you're having a rough time Buster, I think others have given you good advice.

    Not so long ago (earlier this year), I went off to stay at a friends because I couldn't cope with being at home, I even started looking at places to rent. But here I am back home and pretty happy with my husband again. So for you things might change and it might not be a done deal as yet.

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    Re: Struggling

    Thanks for the replies, I felt so low this morning and tried to leave the site because I just keep dumping the same shite on you , I have to live it but you don’t need to hear about it , anyway unlucky for you I couldn’t find how to close my account so you’re just stuck with me , I went to get the dogs and partner isn’t well , she’s been passing blood again , she has IBS which does flare up but they wanted her to go in and be checked for what’s going on and possibly Crohns , anyway she declined but is in agony , I’ve said I’ll still give her some space but if she needs me I’m very close , I know there is still love between us but we both have issues that can clash , we’re in such a good place financially compared to a few years ago and we both want this future at the coast although I saw my granddaughter today and she said “ don’t even think about moving away its not happening “ I guess I do fit in somewhere , got my dog with me tonight which feels a lot less lonely and given everyone that has stayed in this house finds it spooky and possibly haunted having the dog here is very welcome , I’ve also fitted new bulbs as when daughter lived here she put Eddison bulbs everywhere so it’s like the black hole .
    I agree I do need to get on with my life it’s just hard when everything seems to be falling apart and let’s face it we’ve had more than our fair share of problems , I’d love to start going to see my old mates again but most of them still drink and do coke until the morning , even if I wasn’t nuts I’d still be too old , funny thing is several of them have had breakdowns and been in prison so not sure why I’m so ashamed of how I am mentally.
    Anyway thanks .

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