Re: Struggling
Originally Posted by
Buster70
Your chap probably does look at other women like we all do but it doesn’t mean we’re shopping
We all look B. It's not the looking that bothers me. Let's just say that my past is the issue here..
she has been through so much as a child , loss and abuse but she didn’t turn to crack or drink she had kids and looked after them probably a bit too well .
Interesting. I haven't seen this abuse thing with your Mrs until now and suddenly it's all making a LOT more sense to me!
Abuse, whether it be mental, emotional or physical leaves it's mark in the psyche. If the trauma is not addressed then it will be suppressed but that means that it's going to come out some other time, and in all kinds of ways..
today my partner told me something and it is troubling me but I’m desperately trying not to freak out and ruin things , maybe tmi but one of her nipples has gone inward ,it came up because of Sarah Harding’s death , I guess this can be something or nothing , it hasn’t gone red or any leakage but it’s there and needs looking at , she said it’s been like it a few months .
All changes with breasts need looking at but they're rarely cancer..
For twenty years since my dad died I’ve been around just females , mum ,daughters , granddaughter, partner , but I still have no idea about most women’s problems , it’s like a secret society and men are not allowed in or told anything.
Not in our house lol
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