Re: Struggling
Hi Buster. We have often said our lives feel as though they run parallel with each other. Because I'm dreading a mammogram that Mrs F has scheduled for Monday 27th. It makes me wonder if they're sending out letters for routine screening? Anyway I'm getting a lot of anxiety over it too, so maybe we can panic together.
I've seen the famous people lately with breast cancer, poor Sarah Harding and now Julia Bradbury. And Mrs F lost a good friend in August even though she was 80. Having said all that, we have to ignore what others have/have not got and concentrate on our own situations. Does your partner have any symptoms of breast cancer? Does she check herself? Because this is what's relevant to our partners, not what is happening elsewhere. I'm good at dishing out advice, now I just need to follow it myself.
Our 25th wedding anniversary is on 28th September, the day after. Perhaps that is a good omen for us both. Hang in there mate, we can get through this.
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