I am really at my wit's end right now because my mom (who has dementia) persistently follows, corners and touches me while I am eating.
I have tried to be as tolerant as possible for the most part towards this quirk of hers but today I almost had a meltdown when she did it whilst I was eating a sandwich at lunchtime.
She has always had a bit of a habit of interfering and cornering me whilst I was eating and taking personally my flipping out at her for invading my personal space, long before she developed dementia. My aunt (her sister) has always been worse in the sense of being unable (and unwilling) to comprehend people's rights to personal space, and sticking her oar in herself during mealtimes.
I feel so hopeless because I feel intolerant right now and feel like a cruel and insensitive barsteward, and my mom has accused me of hating her, which is far from the truth.
Thank God I'm off to my day centre tomorrow and Thursday with social distancing still mostly in place, especially at lunchtimes.