Re: I Need Help Dealing With This
PennyP123,
First and foremost, I'm so sorry you are having a rough go right now. It sounds like you are having a moment that is quite troubling. Hopefully you will get some great advice here.
Secondly, correct me if I'm wrong but you don't currently have a cancer diagnosis correct? You are worried over the potential of one day being diagnosed with cancer? If this is the case, then the best advice anyone can give you is to live your life! Yay!! You don't have cancer! Even if you did, you would still need to live your life.
The best thing to do right now is to get some professional help for your worries. Are you currently seeing a mental health professional? If not, seek one out and work with that person on better managing your anxiety.
The light bulb moment for me was when I realized I actually didn't have cancer and was in fact living as though I did (I wasn't living). I was being my own worst enemy and creating some self-fulfilling prophecy about not being able to live my life.
Best Wishes.
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I asked myself one day, "What if I actually don't have cancer? What if I'm not really dying? Then surely I'm alive and should be living."
Not a doctor or a psychologist, just a guy who's been to a lot of them.