Re: Short time watcher first time poster
Originally Posted by
Casdone
At that point I got quite worried so made an appointment with Dr Google (not sure where that guy got his medical degree from). Of course he diagnosed me straight away with MS, ALS you name it. In a panic
I'm so sorry about your wife. As stress goes, it's right there at the very top of the Holmes and Rahe stress scale. Number one: death of a spouse.
My latest (and worst) bout of HA was triggered by my mother's death so I'm not at all surprised that your wife's death has triggered a severe HA response..
Re Dr Google..
Don't type your symptoms into Google unless you fancy spending the next hours, days, weeks, and months - thinking you'll be dead by Christmas. It's that simple.
Google will always come up with the worst case (and least likely) cause of a symptom. It's like Google is run by people who write for the Daily Mail or something? Or Chat magazine? I can imagine little DM minions' eyes lighting up with glee as soon as someone types in; bleeding and lump up the bum. Number uno cause? Piles. But that won't scare the shit out of us, right? But the rarer (and least likely cause) 'cancer' will and HA ONLY deals in the worst (and unlikely) scenarios - no matter what you type in..
If this helps, I've had (have) all the symptoms you are talking about (and a lot more) and me and the docs went down the MS route. Turns out that it's due to a combo of fibromyalgia and cervical spondylosis. I have wear and tear in two areas on my cervical spine (and some slight nerve impingement) and this accounts for the numbness and tingling.
I also have a sensation where it feels like cold water is running down my legs? Or I've walked into a cobweb and my cheek feels weird? It's the Spondy that's causing your issues but also anxiety can cause a lot of neuro type 'tingly' symptoms because we tend to breathe shallowly, and it's also to do with the way blood is pumped to specific parts of the body in order for the fight or flight response to be most effective...
Spondy can cause headaches and all sorts..
It's not the physio you need to be listening to. It's the doctors..
You also need some help with the HA and to come to terms with being the sole parent. Parenting is hard enough when there's two of you, right? Do you have a support system? No amount of help can ever replace a wife and mother but family and friends can help to take some pressure off?
Last edited by NoraB; 13-09-21 at 08:30.
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