So my step mum had a mammogram as a routine check up. She had a letter a week later saying that she has been called back to the breast clinic for further tests. She was worried about it and I told her maybe it is a cyst or something they can deal with there and then. She had to have further scans and a biopsy there. Her results came through and they moved her appointment forward from the 16th to 8th (today). The doctor said it was breast cancer and she needs surgery and radiotherapy starting next week. We are so shocked and devastated here. I really feel for my step mum and I am not sure what to say. I just snap shut. Having lost my mum to cancer 14 years ago, it's bringing back all sorts of memories. Just looking for advice on how to deal with this and the right things to say. I want to cry, god knows how she feels. I can't stand seeing another person sad or ill. It feels like everything has come crashing down.
Thanks in advance