hope u r all having a nice valentines day, its mine n my fiance's 2yr anniversary and ive managed to ruin it. last nite he went out 4 a meal with his family and their friends and one of them that he was sat next to had a virus and collapsed. i was worried that it cud have been a sickness thing and as i suffer from emetophobia i was worried my fiance cud catch it n that i cud 2 if i went near him. last nite we were sposed to celebrate our 2yr anniversay but i cud barely hug him. this has never happened to us b4, where iv worried about being near him as hes not been in really close contact to someone whos been ill since we got together, but it was bound to happen one day and many more times in the future. it's not very often my phobia comes between us but i ruined our whole anniversay and he's so upset and down about it . he sed he cant keep putting up wiv it, but if i cant get rid of it then wots gonna happen? it cud mean the end of us and i cant imagine life without him. i dont want my phobia to ruin everything.