Having a moan..........again

[linjane]

Hi Tracy,
Just to let you know, I have been through so many losses, and one of the reasons I am like I am now is because I didn't grieve properly. So what if it all comes to a head at the funeral, it is good for you. It is not good to let the grief build up (thats what I have done) so if you can let go, you should. Hope you are ok today but do not feel bad about being upset.
Take care,
Linda.

<b id="quote">quote:</b id="quote"><table border="0" id="quote"><tr id="quote"><td class="quote" id="quote">sorry to hear your not having too good a day i think we all have times when we get maudlin and feel sorry for ourselfs so your not on your own with that one i hope tomorrow goes ok for you and your soon feeling a bit better

fan x

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[nomorepanic]

Tracy

How did it go today - hope you are ok?

Nicola

[Tracy68]

Hi Nicola
Well I got thru it. Once when we were sitting at my Auntie's house waiting for the cars did i start to feel like i couldn't go. But i think that was because everyone was turning up and i felt smothered. So went outside for same air and a ciggie and felt a bit better. And it didn't all come to a head like i thought it might, now whether that was me fighting it and telling myself not to i don't know. Just feel totally exhausted now but i guess thats to be expected. Trying to cheer up now and get packed, i'm off to see John (partner) up in Lancashire tomorrow but just got that "i really can't be bothered" mood at the moment. I'm sure it'll go. Well has to can't go up there with no clothes and you know what us women are like when we pack lol.
Tracy
xx

[Meg]

Well done Tracy for going and doing so well.

Have a good time up in Lancs




Meg
www.overcominganxiety.co.uk
You cannot conquer fear until you have learned what it is you're afraid of. The enemy is ignorance. Vivian Vance

[nomorepanic]

Tracy

Well done for coping so well today.

I hope you get packed ok and have a nice time at the partners.

We will be thinking of you.

Try and get an early night tonight and don't pack the kitchen sink like I do when I go away!

Nicola

[bubbles]

Tracy,

Sounds as though you coped well today.
Well done!

Hope you have a good break in Lancashire.

Linda. x