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    derealisation/depersonlisation

    Hi Guys,

    Just a quick note - one of my most disturbing symptoms is derealisation/depersonlisation - which out of everything is for me the hardest to overcome, and generally comes on now and again - and out of all symptoms is the one that can seem to return the most.

    I also find it is generally there is very little info about it, both from proffessionals and other sources, so i pretty much decided i was gonna have to live with it. Until that is the other day - I came across the most brilliant book called "The stranger in the mirror - dissociation the hidden epidemic" by Marlen Steinberg and Maxin Schnall. It's all about derealisation/depersonlisation - and expalins really clearly load s about it. The authors have conducted loads of research that shows derealisation/depersonlisation is really common in everyone - and is a normal stress reaction. But that in some it can happen easily and get stuck - going into the extremes of multiple personalities etc.

    Basically it debunks something that i always had ie the niggling worry that it really was evidence that i was slowly going mad - and something that i really had trouble explaining. Not at all - daydreaming, losing yourself in a book or film, are all common signs of derealisation/depersonlisation that are normal and common - its just they get more and more extreme the more stressed and anxious you get - it's just your bodies defence mechanism protecting you against trauma.

    it's great you can get it on Amazon - reassurance on tap!

    Cheers

    nikk

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    Hi nikk,

    I must confess I know very little about this subject? Would you mind telling me more about it, what are the symptoms etc.?

    Regards,

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    Thanks for the tip Nikk!!

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    Nikk we had someone specifically asking for help with this persistant DP recently so thanks for the recommendation.




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    Nikk

    I will add it to my recommended book list as well.

    Nicola

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    Nikk,

    Thanks for the info. DP/DR are my worst symptoms and terrify me. I seem to be stuck with the feelings 24/7.

    Nicola,

    I really could do with this book. I will try through your list. Thanks very much.

    If I could only understand these horrid feelings, maybe I could manage them.

    Thanks again
    Jude x.

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    Thanks Nikk for the link

    I get DP/DR and for me, they're harder to deal with than a full-blown PA, I really hate them.. I'm not sure I'll read the book, part of me thinks ignorance is bliss but I will bear it in mind!

    Thanks again

    J

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    Here is a link to the book on Amazon

    http://www.amazon.co.uk/exec/obidos/...csmismatcofuse

    If you buy it from this link I get 5% commission for the website funds.

    Nicola

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    Hi Nicola,

    Iv order it through your link, thanks.

    Nikk,

    Thanks again for the info. I just hope it doesnt scare the pants off me now[:P]

    Jude x

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    Jude

    Thanks very much - every little helps as they say.

    Nicola

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